General Terms

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Bare
unclothed, naked

BDSM
acronym for the collected terms ‘Bondage,’ ‘Discipline,’ ‘Sadism,’ ‘Masochism’ (sometimes including ‘Dominance’ and ‘Submission’); used referring to the larger fetish and alternative-sexuality community of which Spanking is a small part

bottom
term referring to the buttocks

brat
verb - behavior that includes back talk, snarky comments, and generally pushing the boundaries to intentionally get in trouble

CDD
abreviation for "Christian Domestic Discpline," a Domestic Discipline relationship with a Christian religious component

Domestic Discipline
Defined relationship with a Top and bottom to have set rules and expectations, generally within a romantic relationship or when living together

Impact Play
a form of BDSM play that incorporates the striking of the body to inflict sensation

Party
gathering of multiple people sharing a common interest. Often involves, sharing in spanking discussion and/or activities publicly, though this is not required

Scene
short for scenario, term generally used to designate the beginning and end of a spanking encounter.

Session
the act of two or more people coming together and sharing in spanking

Spank
the act of smacking the buttocks with open hand or other implement

Spanking
Impact Play focused specifically on delivering or receiving spanks

Spanking Purist
also, Spanko Purist - One who participates in Spanking activities exclusively but shies away from other forms of BDSM play

Spanking Shrapnel
collective term referring to the implements and articles of clothing left strewn about following a spanking session or party

Stingy
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, an implement as light and leaves a stinging sensation on the skin that dissipates quickly

Stroke
the act of one single spank, usually with a cane or leather implement

Swat
the act of one single spank

Thuddy
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, as heavy and leaves a lasting sensation usually deep into the muscle tissue

Toys
collection of implements

Vanilla
referring to those who don’t share our spanking interest, or in general, those not interested in any BDSM activity